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Guiding Your Daughter Through Her First Period

Updated: May 16

Dos and Don'ts for Preparing Her for menstruation.


Navigating your daughter's first period and the signs of her first period is difficult. You may feel overwhelmed with the number of things to consider to ensure she is supported and ready.

Knowing what to say can be a difficult task. It can be uncomfortable for parents to discuss. Moreover, people have different opinions about the topic.

Parents should be aware of key messages when having a period talk with their daughters. These messages are important for both mothers, fathers and caregivers.

Thankfully, this information is available. We will outline important things to appreciate and avoid while talking her through her upcoming menstrual cycle in this article. It is important to appreciate the milestones and to avoid certain topics.

Making sure you establish and keep lines of communication open.



teenage girl talking and smiling

What you need to do to prepare for a conversation with your daughter about potentially having her first period.

Discussing your daughter's first period can be an awkward and difficult conversation to have, but it is an essential one. To ensure that the conversation goes smoothly, it's crucial to prepare beforehand.


Ensure that you have the correct information. Understand what to expect. This way, you can answer any questions your daughter may have. Additionally, it's a good idea to choose a quiet and private location where you can have a conversation without any distractions.

Be sure to speak calmly and openly, and take your daughter's feelings into account. This is an important conversation. It can set the tone for future talks about sexual health and well-being. Remember this.


Talking to Your Teenage Daughter About Periods: Understanding the Physical, Social, and Emotional Changes Involved

As parents, we feel a bit anxious when thinking about our daughters growing up and entering their teen years. However, it is important for us to prepare them for the changes that come with puberty.


Menstruation can be a scary experience for young girls. That's why it's important to teach them about it before it begins. Keep in mind that on average, girls start their periods at age 12 in the UK and the US. Girls can get their first period between 10 - 15 years of age.

Physically, your daughter can expect to experience bloating, cramping, and hormonal changes during her period. Socially, she may feel embarrassed or ashamed to talk about it with friends or family. Emotionally, she may feel moody, irritable, or overwhelmed.

It is essential for us to support our daughters. We should create an open dialogue where they can ask questions. This will help them feel comfortable discussing any concerns they may have. By being informed and prepared, we can help make the transition into womanhood a little bit easier for our daughters.


The basics of a menstrual cycle as explained to a 10-year-old girl.

The menstrual cycle is like a monthly calendar for your body, usually lasting about 28 days, but sometimes it can be shorter or longer. It starts on the first day of your period and ends when the next one begins. There are two main parts: the first half (days 1 to 14) when your body gets ready to release an egg, and the second half (after day 14) until your next period starts.